just recently advised a widow, whose son purchased mother's council house for her with cash - he's hit some financial problems, and she has mortgaged it so she can help out him, repaying the money used for her house purchase to him. the house would have passed to him on her death, and they're just a regular family, not out to screw each other. she wanted him to be with her when she came to me for advice.
She had told the DWP what she was doing and they were cool - told her it wouldn't affect her pension credit, and just to put a brief note in writing.
However, at the neighbourhood office they frightened her half to death with scary tales of depravation, woven in to the 'You shouldn't have done that!' lecture.
Probably in response to her trembling and tears she was then given perhaps well- intentioned explanations of why her actions fell under the heading of 'THINGS YOU SHOULD NOT DO WITHOUT CLEARING IT WITH US FIRST, OR YOU COULD GET INTO TROUBLE, illuminated somewhat clumsily, it appears, with 'fer instances' from a range of possible attempts to abuse the benefit system which she could in theory, be making... more i gather, to demonstrate that there is reason and rationality in their actions...they are not monstrous out- of- control raving lunatics...
but it only made it worse...it all sounded crazy and alarmed her further...
it was a bunch of nonsense, but she was very upset and frightened that she would be accused of wrong-doing, and it took some time and effort to reassure her.
there is an implied trust between them, understood within the family, and there is at least, solicitor's proof of son's beneficial interest, not that that ought to come up at all, but it would probably be beneficial if she makes a will...
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