a 14 year old girl wetting the bed is likely to have emotional or psychological problems, of which the bed-wetting is a symtom or manifestation. how reasonable it is to help her when she has to deal with the bed-wetting problem, or to leave her to deal with it alone, will depend on the circumstances, and could be very variable. i would expect that a big factor to be considered would be what is most likely to help with the emotional problems, and what might make them worse. and i would also expect that in most cases, the mother's insights into her child's emotional needs should be given a great deal of weight. you might need to explore these more closely with your client.
the argument about 'reasonableness' is the one i expect would come up, and i'd advise you to be wary of any attitude that re-classifies the problem as one of parenting, not disability. i encountered this in an incontinence case of a much younger child, and it appeared to originate from the medical member of the tribunal. the appeal submission as usual gave no coherent explanation, and there was no presenting officer, but the doctor went off on this approach very forcefully from the start, despite the evidence of her consultant that the case was exceptional.
the client didn't get the award justified by the evidence, but she didn't want to risk the award that was given, by appealing further.
i'd be very concerned if there is a movement to deny the weight to be given to a parent's judgement of what help their child reasonably requires, by the introduction of a dubious 'parenting problem' argument, when this has the effect of saving the government money and at the same time arguably infringing the right to family life. ( is the mother or the state the best judge of a child's best interests? of course, not all parents will be the best judge, but the state's view tends to be that cheapest is best.) fortunately the state is the first tier decision maker, so the tribunal is not bound to consider that good-parenting would invariably consider it reasonable that an emotionally troubled 14 year old should deal with her night-time problems without help.
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